Questions involving commenting on people’s post.. maybe someone can help?

I’m new to WordPress and to blogging… this is my first ever blog.. and I just started writing about my life past 6 months.. before I was primarily a song writer.. but my question is about comments here.. I notice sometimes when I comment on people’s post.. they aren’t always received.. it’s been happening a lot.. for example.. I tried several times to leave a comment for someone.. and it just won’t go through.. so I gave up.. it shows the comment posting.. but then a lil later.. I go back and check and it’s not there.. but yet others are just chatting it up there 😅.. so what’s the deal?.. someone help me

14 Replies to “Questions involving commenting on people’s post.. maybe someone can help?”

  1. Wishing you success with your new blog, Bryan. 💜

    You could try just saying “HI” on my comment page. You won’t see it posted immediately because I moderate comments. Some bloggers do that to screen out hurtful or offensive comments. It may take some time for me to reply but I will let you know when I check my blog. Other blogs may not be set up correctly.

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  2. For first-time commenters, the person whose blog you comment on has to moderate – approve or disapprove – of the comment. I don’t think that everyone is as responsive as you might be, and sometimes people spend little time checking their blogs.
    But you are not alone, I have it happen also.

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  3. It’s probably the moderation setting on the other person’s blog (mine is set in a way that I have to approve the first comment from someone, but then automatically lets all future comments from them through – but some people have all comments blocked until approved) – that said – WordPress goes through some glitchy phases on different devices too. Some times I get “comment not loaded” style prompts on everyone’s posts on a particular day when I’m using my phone… then a month later its my ipad that’s blocking me… sigh… stay at it though, building community through comments is one of the best parts of blogging! Best wishes, Linda 🙂

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      1. Live and learn is the only way on WP – but from what I can tell from talking to others, it’s still infinitely better than Medium or Substack so stay the course – it’s very rewarding to slowly build up a little crew of like-minded people!💕

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